"Your style really has nothing to do with all the stuff that you have purchased for the wedding. It is a confidence and grace that everyone sees in you. It’s your conduct how considerate and respectful you are toward those around you. Your wedding isn’t just to have a great party, it is your chance to be the ultimate hostess.

Don’t keep your guests waiting to start the ceremony, make sure they are comfortable during the ceremony, don’t let them sit in the rain or sweltering sun.

If you can’t afford a huge meal have your wedding in the afternoon with lovely finger foods. It would be better to have great tasting snacks as opposed to a cheap large meal. Do an afternoon tea with class.

Giving up your photography for an inexpensive five coarse meal is not the way to go."